What kind of guy is not prepared to have sex at any time? That's what I want to know. Seriously, I was talking about it with some of my mates the other day, and only one of us had ever turned down an offer of sex ever, and that's because it was his best friends ex-girlfriend! Anytime (esp w/girlfriend) no one ever said no! Maybe you just need to 'wake him up' in the right way. Don't pretend like you don't know what I'm talking about.

 

Problem is he believes waking up before 10am is criminal (even for sex), which is annoying because I have to get to 'Varsity before then if I want to get anything constructive done during the day.

Additionally, spontaneous in the afternoon? Please, I can't drag him away from his computer! I say "You, pants off, now!" or some such equivalent ;) and half the time it doesn't work. Just today, I leaned over in class and whispered in his ear that I wanted to run off to the bathroom with him for a quickie, and he blithely said "Naa, I don't feel like it".

This means one of two things:
(a) he is not normal...
(b) I'm an unsexy, unappealing hideous monster who can't be fucked with the lights on or in the absence of a brown paper bag...