Girl Interrupted

Wednesday, September 28, 2005

[+/-] Morning sex, evening sex

James and I have a problem. He is a night person. I am a morning person. This means, when I go to bed at night, I am really tired, and I am not interested in sex (usually) any time after 10:30pm. Similarly, he is not interested in sex in the morning, like any time before 10am. This is a fundamental incompatibility issue here. We're like ships in the night. What can I do about this?

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  • At Wed Sep 28, 05:08:00 pm GMT+2, Anonymous Jake said…

    What kind of guy is not prepared to have sex at any time? That's what I want to know. Seriously, I was talking about it with some of my mates the other day, and only one of us had ever turned down an offer of sex ever, and that's because it was his best friends ex-girlfriend! Anytime (esp w/girlfriend) no one ever said no! Maybe you just need to 'wake him up' in the right way. Don't pretend like you don't know what I'm talking about.

     

  • At Fri Sep 30, 12:42:00 pm GMT+2, Blogger iamthatdude said…

    Hi this can happen. I guess you two would have to talk it out and cum to a solution. Generally men do feel raunchy in the morning also and I guess your person too would feel the same provided you talk him into it, may be when he has had his night's rest, snuggle close to him in the morning just before he usually wakes up, kiss him softly, whisper in his ears, caress his chest,nipples and down under. I guess these things ought to work. Else you should try it quite spontaneously some time during the afternoon. :-) Do feel free to drop in and chat at my blog.
    with warm regards
    iamthatdude
    www.iamthatdude.blogspot.com

     

  • At Fri Sep 30, 01:32:00 pm GMT+2, Blogger dreamweaver said…

    Problem is he believes waking up before 10am is criminal (even for sex), which is annoying because I have to get to 'Varsity before then if I want to get anything constructive done during the day.

    Additionally, spontaneous in the afternoon? Please, I can't drag him away from his computer! I say "You, pants off, now!" or some such equivalent ;) and half the time it doesn't work. Just today, I leaned over in class and whispered in his ear that I wanted to run off to the bathroom with him for a quickie, and he blithely said "Naa, I don't feel like it".

    This means one of two things:
    (a) he is not normal...
    (b) I'm an unsexy, unappealing hideous monster who can't be fucked with the lights on or in the absence of a brown paper bag...

     

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